Understanding Coercive Control
Coercive control is not always loud, visible or physical. It can show up through fear, pressure, isolation, manipulation and the gradual loss of confidence, safety or independence
Resource Guide
What Is Coercive Control?
Coercive control is a pattern of behaviour used to intimidate, manipulate, isolate or control another person. It is often subtle at first and can happen gradually over time, making it difficult to recognise while it is happening. The aim is often to create fear, dependence, confusion or loss of confidence
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Emotional Imapct
Confusion & Self-Doubt
- Feeling constantly blamed or criticised
- Questioning your memory or reality
- Feeling "too sensitive" or over-reactive
- Losing confidence in your own decisions
- Struggling to trust your instincts
- Feeling emotionally drained or disconnected
Control & Isolation
Losing Independence
- Being monitored or checked on excessively
- Feeling pressured to cut people off
- Having limited freedom, privacy or personal space
- Becoming emotionally or financially dependent
- Losing confidence in social situations
- Feeling guilty for spending time alone
Fear & Intimidation
Living In Survival Mode
- Walking on eggshells around reactions and moods
- Feeling anxious before conversations
- Constant overthinking and hypervigilance
- Feeling responsible for another person's emotions
- Struggling to fully relax or feel safe
Hidden Abuse
Not All Abuse Leaves Bruises
- Coercive control is often subtle and gradual
- Abuse may be disguised as care or love
- Manipulation can happen without shouting or violence
- Emotional abuse can deeply affect self-worth
- Trauma responses may continue after separation
- Many survivors do not recognise the abuse immediately
Downloadable resources
Helpful Guides & Fact Sheets
Sometimes understanding abuse, trauma or emotional overwhelm takes time. These downloadable guides are designed to help people recognise patterns, understanding their experiences and access information at their own pace without pressure or judgement
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